five years , my life in Chennai, its not easy to explain..
came to find job ,once i found i started searching life.
is Chennai is right place to search life what i want or what i used to be with my village.?of course
i didn't get the replica...!
the problem is with Chennai? or with me?
everyone life covered with people.how many of them covered me?
really LOT
what i am doing with them?
cinema, pub, party, outing..! whats next...
cinema, pub, party ,outing ..what next -go to previous line
is it friendship ?whats value I maintains for that..
am i sharing all my good and bad with them ?
am i taking care of them completely
am i honest ?
is knowing each other enough to declare it is friendship ....
if i like a person , am i conveying it properly?
even if i declared , am i complimenting regularly ?
without orkut is it possible to get their birth date ?
did i know all their problems ?
for all the above the answer is a big NO!!!
what is stopping me?
if a rain drop fall in the lake , it loses its identity ...
Life is the most beautiful journey..
ReplyDeleteYou might come from anywhere.. but the true director of your life is your own life...
The pages are unturned and you need to wait until the end to know what it has in store for us.
You might be from different backgrounds,different places...but when people meet and join as friends... the scenario of the stage of actors changes..
We all live one life...
We need to know what is best for us..
But keepin in mind... that we need to be true to our own selves..
Once you are able to do that.. you will be able to face all the facts of life..
Life.. a beautiful journey, whereever, in a village, chennai or in mumbai...
Vijay, my brother, Its not always cinema & partying - your social work is a big part of your life too. And you enjoy this volunteer work whole-heartedly!
ReplyDeleteSome ppl can express their feelings "ditto" thru 1.words & 2.actions. Some are proficient in only ONE of these two. Some are unable to express in both ways. But, the vibes we get when we are with them tell us how much we really mean to them.
But, anyone who has been shy or inexpressive for so long can step-out & make their feelings known effectively if they decide to try. Expression of feelings can relieve a person's worries & anxiety, promote better understanding with his friends.
I have no answer except a smile :).... Im surprised to see such a post from you. Im sure you have a lot of frends :)
ReplyDeleteur thoughts abt declaring one's affection to a frnd s gud, n one day u wld feel happy abt ur life my frnd!
ReplyDeleteLuckily there are no set rules in life, except that, one should find a way to be happy each day. It all starts frm within, doesnt matter whether u r in chennai, r a village, r in a pub r theatre. Just chill n njoy life!
TC buddy
thanks for comments my dear friends..hope my questions activated few brains cells to some friends..wherever it is i m always happy..i taken myself and simulated the complications of my friends came across..
ReplyDeleteFriendship ....
ReplyDeleteONE OF UR QUESTION....
without orkut is it possible to get their birth date ?
I GET SURPIRSE TAT QUESTION... LAST 4 YEARS ONLY ORKUT HERE....BEFORE THAT?...
nowadays friendship jus 4 fun…Not for ur feelings…All goin 2 Technology....
NOKIA CONNECTING PEOPLE -
BUT ITS NOT ABLE 2 CONNECTING HEART...
" அருகில் இருந்தும் பிரிந்து இருக்கின்றோம்....தொலைவில் இருந்தும் இனைந்து இருக்கின்றோம்...இணையத்தால்..இதயத்தால்.."
இந்த வரிகளை நன்றாக படியுங்கள் இரண்டு அர்த்தம் உள்ளது...